In this time of day, you are based on your actions. The person who you want to be when you're older is all depended on the things you do now. For example, we live in Santa Maria. Santa Maria has currently been a very "ghetto" place lately because of all the gang activities and murder. Now imagine a little boy and girl whose siblings, parents,etc are in the gang business. Technically it is in their blood to join, to become a part of the family business, but that isn't fair. They have to decide for themselves to be a gang member or gain an actual profession in the working world. They weren't destined to become what their family wanted them to be , they are destined to be what they want to be.
There is also the fact that there are rude,improper people in this world. They don't have to be a bad-mannered, potty mouth, dirty person. If they choose to be nice and respectful they will become a better person. It doesn't matter if that is the way you were raised or if that's what all your friends do. If you want your kids or other people to respect you be the person you decide to be, do not be what others want you to be.
*Not finished. Edited: 10/14/2016 7:52am
